Wednesday, December 3, 2008

The Water, is it calm as we see?



The most soothing sight of the world, any form of it can generate enormous amount of merry and sense of calmness in the minds, yes i am talking about water...

It can fall as rain on you to bring out the emotions kept in the secret chamber of heart, it can stay as a lake to give a pleasant rejuvenating sight.

The lake was calm that evening as she appeared on the bank, cannot we assume that everything is calm in the morning.

In fact there was no lake, no water, it was a desert with a girl in solitude with deep thoughts and long awaiting as do the lake. The lake was only an extended picture of the emotions, but is the water really calm?

Solitude produced calmness, but cannot believe that solitude can help in any way to be calm, if we go near to the person we can hear the heart burning inside, the exchange of words happening inside the mind with different view points, so do the lake, can hear the murmurs as we go near

We can go to the edge of a lake and hear it but how can we go to the edge of a heart and sense the emotional boiling happening inside due to the solitude??

How can someone be alone in this populated world ? why we can't be in relations always, why break ups creating much bigger gaps than a single person.

How can we go near to a person emotionally when that person is isolated from relations

As far as i know from my experiences, we can establish relations with anyone even with the most detached person! A break up always gives an impression that relations could hurt deeply so that person could stay away from relations as he/ she knows the pain of parting.

The other danger of going near and gaining confidence of such a person is that we should be careful to keep that trust up, cannot impose another painful loss.....

The art we have to learn is to be near to them but stay in a distance! provide the confidence of support but same time keep ourselves away from giving wrong concepts about the intentions, tough an art to learn but will be great if you can earn it

4 comments:

Priyadha Ramesh said...

thtz a gud one gops. reading sumone's mind can b a tough task, but it feels so good if they are comfortable to describe their feelings to us.

gayathri said...

Gops ......... Its very nice....

Unknown said...

Wow that was a nice read ...getting addicted to your writing.....beautifully explained at the end how to support a lonely person ...an art one should learn ...

By the way we all are sometime alone or lonely even though surrounded by people around us as that is the time when we look inside or inward ....

Shruti....

റോബിന്‍ said...

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