Wednesday, September 17, 2008

Ladies, read when your man has no time for you

Have you heard that "men are from mars and women are from Venus?

It simply mean the requirements of both are different emotionally, the longing of having a listener especially her partner is so high in a female, she likes to explain each and everything happened in her life each day, But most men find such minute explanations as irrelevant and they get irritated and try to escape from the scene.

You thinks that your b/f is less interested in you. No need its true, its just a feeling, to be more accurate its a biased thought. You are reaching on that conclusion from your point of view, he must be having an explanation to provide.

friend, the way to express love and affection is different in each and every individual, just try to understand him more, its surely not a surrender or compromise, its simply called understanding and its so essential to keep relations alive, try to think from his angle too before you claim that he lacks love towards you.

If he is really thrifty is showing the love towards you, talk to him and say him that i expect more, or explain him that what all you expect from him, lets see how he react to your requirements.

Love is not only a feeling its an expression too. if someone fail to do it perfectly they will be accused to be less romantic.

And let me tell you a final point, sometimes excess expression of love could irritate the partner, keep that it mind, if you are not getting an expected reaction from your b/f just try to learn the situation,he could be diverted in thought, its better to be defensive at that time, i mean if you feel that your b/f is not listening to you or not giving the attention don't start complaining at the same moment, give him some time to come back.

2 comments:

Unknown said...

I agree with all d above points ..
but somtimes comparisons come and at dat time we feel a bit failure in our relation ships.

Unknown said...

Hello Gopan ....agree to your point but since u written it from a man's point of view you asking femals or women to understand men ......dont you think it high time for men too to think how a female or women feels or wants things in her life ....women are always expected to take the burden of understanding ....

Both need to understand each other and adjust you cannot keep on asking women to adjust ....its time for men too to start understanding women if they can :P

Do tell me if i am wrong anywhere.....

Shruti.....